Posted in Passages

Integrated

From India they came,
to small lands barely 100 years old –
the biggest war less than two decades finished.
Mother, father, two little boys
young family and a young paradise, they hoped.
Coming to a good job
and almost good suburb.

Ebony and Ivory, they were
first day at kindergarten, primary school, high school
and university
knew each other 17 of 20 years
and their mothers
bound by children’s education
and same street address.

Jeff said his mother spoke of how it had been
Romi’s mum told of not quite racism ..
of soto voce… feelings that caught
… the only Asian family in the street …
how it lasted more than a few years,
and took a long time,
a very long time to disappear completely.
He said you could imagine the surprise when
a Polynesian family moved to the street
and Romi’s mother sighed,
for the neighbourhood,
wondering of property values and tone.

 

Posted in Rituals

Just You Wait

I always asked,
even though the answer was known
and
always clenched teeth at the precisely predicted reply.
NO, we don’t give out samples ”
and always added the appendix –
“ we’re doing a function
and looking to spend several hundred dollars.
It’s company policy not to … ”
……. Yeah, I know ….. you tight wads.
AZZ distributors –
stranglehold on top end deli items
cost plus … and then some.

Five years on the job and the monopoly is broken
the rep comes with a new price list
and
a change in policy
AZZ would be happy to supply samples for any product.

“ Sorry mate, I’m now using ….. ”

Posted in Rituals

Leisure Time

It must be a core competency :
along with colour, style, hygiene
and small business accounting,
hairdressers are required to master small talk.

Chat literacy demonstrated in
television programs,
social trends,
popular sport,
populist politics –
but not too much so.

A thin and invisible line to be walked.
Interest and knowledge evident 
but no offence, 
or don’t come back opinions.

She was new
urchin freckled
with snub nose
and tangerine hair.
She asked about me – and what I’d been doing
mechanical reply trials to reflexive reciprocal. 
What has she been up to?

“ Oh
a bit of this,
a bit of that,
a bit of the other, not enough of the other.”